After the initial 'mourning' period, we need to get moving again and find a new project or outlet to immerse ourselves in. Time flies when your having... well it moves along a little faster than if you stay in bed.
Now is a good time to think about the new you.
It is hard to look forward to anything but if you think about the things you wanted to do or the person you wanted to be before all this, it's a start into developing a new beginning and a new life for yourself.
I have a CD a friend made for me after my last split. It contains songs from a time when we were hanging out and having fun together as singles, dancing, going out and traveling together.
When I played it ( and still ), it made me feel more important some how and stronger. It also made me feel more confident and that it really was his loss after all.
What were the things you wanted to do before he came along?
What are the things you put aside until later to do?
Now is the time for you, write a list. It may seem daunting to think of stepping into the world as you as a singular person but what better way than unencumbered??
